How to Make a Girl Chase You by Ignoring Her?

How to Make a Girl Chase You by Ignoring Her?

by Kevin Tunstall
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So, How can you make a girl chase you by Ignoring her?

We have all been in that situation where we just cannot seem to figure out how to capture the other person’s attention.

There might be various situations where you find yourself completely ignored by women, or you might simply not feel valued enough and need someone to shower you with their love.

Do not worry, we all go through that phase. But what is the solution here? 

The good news is that we do have a way for you to get what you want.

All you have to do is ignore her for some time and soon she’ll be chasing after you.

It might sound counterproductive at first but trust me it works.

It almost always works out well, provided that you follow the precautions that we suggest.

What is the Method?

The method is very simple. All you have to do is ignore her. And when we say ignore them, we mean in every way.

Do not initiate a conversation with them, do not reply to their phone calls or their messages. Pay no attention to them at all.

And before you come to the conclusion that we have lost our minds, hear us out. While it might seem quite insane to ignore someone whose attention you want, there is a rationale behind it. 

Why does it Work?

Human psychology works in a way that makes us want what we cannot have even more. This is one psychological reason why this works. It makes her realize your value.

It might even get her to finally acknowledge the emotions that you bring forth inside her. When you spend some time away from the person, it actually inspires feelings of longing and attraction towards you. 

In simple words, it makes her miss you. This makes them cherish you much more than they did before. 

It also gives her time to process things. If the reason behind you trying to recapture her attention is because you lost it in the first place due to some fight, giving her space will be the best possible solution in that situation.

It gives them the time to really think over what happened. It might make her see her own fault in the situation. Basically, it makes possible what you wanted to happen.

Another possible motive is to show her that you are not clingy. This is important for no one likes a clingy person. Here, this behavior shows her that you are capable of giving her the space that she needs. Nevertheless, this method mostly works out.

What not to do?

Ignoring someone can be a very precarious situation. If you feel that simply not paying attention to a woman is going to make all your troubles go away then you still have a lot to figure out about women, my friend. This whole mantra has to be used very carefully or you might end up in a much worse place than before. Here are a few things that you need to be careful about:


First, ask yourself the reason why you are doing this. 

The first scenario is if you want to grab the attention of the girl that you want, who has not expressed the same interest towards you. In this case, you need to ask yourself if the person is actually worth it. Sometimes, if a woman is not into you at all, the best option is to move on. There is no point in pursuing someone who would rather be without you.

The second scenario is that you had a fight with your significant other. In that scenario, you need to first ensure that you are not the one at fault. If you are the one who has made the error and then you ignore your partner, you will most definitely make the situation much worse. 

And final scenario could be that you know that a girl is somewhat interested in you but is not really showing it, This method works the best in such cases.

This is why it is very necessary that you question yourself before taking this step.

Do Not Push Her Limits

Ignoring someone can be a very tricky situation. There are a lot of things that have to be taken care of. One of them is not pushing their limits.

If you spend too much time not paying attention to them, you might end up pushing them away. If you do not respond to their texts or calls for too long, you might up sending the wrong message to them. It is essential to get the timing of things just right. Be very mindful about the time when you have done enough to get what you want.

Be Rational

Do not ignore urgent messages. If your loved ones really need you for something, it is your responsibility to be there for them.

If you can see that your behavior is taking too much of a toll on her, you should be sensitive enough to stop. Your motive is to get her to pay you attention, not to hurt her. Do not end up making a decision that winds up hurting someone too much. 

Know When to Take Them Back

When your motive has been achieved, take them back. If you were looking for an apology, forgive them when they ask for it.

If you were looking for them to show their interest in you, know when to start responding to it. If the motive was to show her that you can give her space, do not end up creating distance between yourselves. If you push her away too much, she might end up losing interest completely. 

the bottom line:

We definitely do not say that this is the best solution out there. It is only the option that you can go for when nothing else works out. You also need to be very careful about the execution of this plan. If you botch it up in any way, you will most probably damage things to the point of no return.

We suggest that you always try to work things out by communicating clearly with each other first. If that does not work out, you can give this method a shot. 

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About the author

Kevin Tunstall

Kevin is a Men's dating and image consultant. He writes about relationships and lifestyle-related topics on Dapperclan. He loves helping men improve themselves and to achieve meaningful relationships.


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